Throughout my visits to China, totaling more than five months,
I received quite a lot of attention - mostly in the form
of staring. So much so that I began to feel like some
sort of celebrity. Or at least I started to understand
how celebrities must feel, being stared at everywhere they
go. At first I thought maybe it was just because I
was a foreigner. But sometimes I would sit in a busy
plaza or pedestrian-street and watch other tourists. They
didn't seem to get the same level of attention that I received.
Then I thought maybe it was because I have long hair - or
that I was usually wearing a bandana on my head - two things
that make me stand out even from other foreigners. It
may even be that, because of my Native American features,
my appearance seems more exotic and difficult to place (something
I've been told by people in other countries as well). At
various times, I went sightseeing with others - either Chinese
locals I met along the way, or other backpackers like myself
- and many of them commented that I seemed to be getting
more than my share of looks from the locals.
Most of the time, if I noticed someone staring, I would
smile and wave. This usually prompted a favorable response...
first an embarrassed laugh, then a smile and wave in return. Some
of the more outgoing ones would even motion for me to come
over, which I usually did without hesitation. This
allowed me to enjoy many conversations with people that I
normally would not have met.
The encounters that were most enjoyable, though, were the
countless times that people would come up to me and ask me
to pose with them for photos. This happened time and
time again. And sometimes they wouldn't even ask. In
Yangshuo, I was sitting on a bench eating ice-cream with
a French couple I met in my hotel. Four Chinese men
sat down on the benches across from us - one took a photo
of me, smiled and thanked me - then they all got up and walked
away.
Mostly it was young females who approached me - (tough life,
eh?) - and after getting a photo with their camera, I would
ask to do one with mine. Here are but a few of the
many encounters I had of this sort...

One of the most memorable was also in Yangshuo. I
was walking down "Western Street" (which is what
they call the pedestrian street with all the shops and restaurants
catering to Westerners) and was approached by an unusually
tall Chinese girl. She asked if I would pose with them,
so I spent the next ten minutes or so doing various individual
and group photos. For a while, I just stood in one
spot while each member of the group posed with me one at
a time. I found out that they were all university students
on a day trip from Guilin (about an hour away by bus). After
all the photo taking was done, they thanked me and we all
went on our merry ways.
Later that afternoon (actually early evening), I encountered
the same group again - and the same girl approached me again. This
time she asked if I would join them for dinner. I agreed
and soon found myself sitting at a large round table - in
a very local restaurant (no English menu - no other foreigners)
- with seventeen students and their teacher. None of
them spoke much English, but with the aide of my dictionary
(and a lot of gesturing) we got along just fine. They
all thought it was funny when I pulled out my own set of
chopsticks.

After dinner, we went for ice-cream - then I walked with
them to their bus and met the rest of their classmates -
forty-three in all. They gave me the address of their
college in Guilin and invited me to come visit. I had
not planned to stop in Guilin, but told them that I would
try.
A couple of days later, I left Yangshuo and headed back
to Guilin. Instead of connecting with another bus to
Guangzhou, I decided to stay at least one day to see if I
could find the campus. I knew they had class until
4:30, but I got a late start on my search so I had very little
time. I flagged down a taxi, showed the driver the
address (written in Chinese for me by the teacher) and off
we went.
We pulled through the gate into the campus proper at 4:20
- this was really going to be close. My driver asked
a couple of people where the math building was and finally
found someone who knew. The bad news: it was
in the northwest part of the city - we were in the southeast
part. The translation wasn't very clear but, from what
I gathered, there were either two campuses of the same college
and the math department was at the other one - or I had been
taken to Guilin College instead of Guilin Teacher's College. Either
way, I was out of time and would have to try again the next
day.
The following day I got an earlier start and prepared a
little better before I went. I asked the manager of
my hotel to call the college, ask directions, and write them
down for me to show my taxi driver. She actually did
better than that - she went outside with me and gave verbal
directions to the taxi driver along with the written ones,
just to make sure. This time we were successful and
I soon found myself standing in the middle of a collection
of nondescript buildings, with no idea which one was the
one I needed.
But, with the help of a passing student, I was soon standing
outside the proper classroom. Not wanting to disrupt
the class too much (yeah, right!), I caught the teacher's
attention from the hallway. She came out to greet me
with a big smile and a very enthusiastic welcome. She
invited me in to talk to her class (a different group than
the ones I met in Yangshuo) - but I graciously declined. I
chatted with her and a couple of the students I had met before
(including the girl who had approached me both times in Yangshuo).
After a few minutes, I told them I should go and said goodbye
- or at least I tried to. The teacher stepped back
into her classroom, but came back out almost immediately. She
told me her students insisted that I come in and visit -
so in I went. There I was, standing in front of 40+
students - most of whom did not speak English, but all wanting
to talk to me. I said a few words - my name, where
I'm from, that I'm traveling for three years, etc. - then
asked if they had any questions. They did, of course,
and I answered as best I could considering the language barrier. Then
I finally said goodbye for real and left. It was one
of those memorable days that I'm sure will stand out above
the rest in the years to come when I think back on my travels.